Every man that you meet
Out there on the welfare
She done been
Her mother and her father
She done been
Raise your hand, raise your hand
The victim of every sad song
Want a family, raise some kids
Comes with baggage and no gig, yeah
Raise your hand, check it out
She done been
Y'all don't seem to understand
The victim of every sad song
What she done been, yeah
Who done been half the things
Who done been half the things
But you dog her
Just like your mama and your daddy did, yeah
Said, give your baby a standing ovation
And you ain't been through half the shit she been
It was her best friend
She been abused by her man
You foot the bill but he come and go at will
She done been
(Got no kind of a job)
If you out there, raise your hand
You don't seem to understand
(She done been)
(She done been)
You step in the church
But she can't find a man
Can you find a man who done been through
Who done been half the things
She done been
Definition of a perfect daughter
Y'all don't seem to understand
But she can't find a man
Twenty-four hours in labor
If you out there, raise your hand
(She done been)
Left at the alter by her sucker man
Daddy always kept it real
She done been
(She done been)
Called bitches and hoes for no reason
(She done been)
Every morning, six am, up from work
(She done been)
(She done been)
Want his cake and eat it too
But every guy you start to dig
You like the thought of making love
Getting reeked on by the man she was pleasing
Scrapping up dollars to get the baby lunch
(She done been)
Who done been half the things
She can't find a man
(She done been)
Got her own college education
She been lied to, cheated on
Taught you how a man supposed to feel
PMS ing once a month
But no matter what you do
She done been
She done been
(She done been)
Her mother and her father
Raise the babies all alone
She done been
Occasional kisses and a few hugs
Ain't even into the party scene
(She done been)
She been lied to, cheated on
Definition of a perfect daughter
(She done been)
She done been
Always in a house but never at a home
Got a baby mama and a lot of bills
She done been
Not afraid to cook and clean
Said, she can't find a man