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dia de los muertos

Posted over 2 years ago
the Philippines, a predominantly Roman Catholic country, is among those that spend an extra day of the dead past Halloween in other countries. we observe All Saints' Day on the 1st and All Souls' Day on the 2nd of November. on All Souls' Day we prepare a feast (perhaps more Chinese than Spanish) and light candles for the dead. because i am far from the most Catholic Catholic you will meet, i never know if candles are lit on the eve, all day, or at a certain time of day. my mother texted last week to remind me about it and all i remember is "6PM" which certainly doesn't help.a self-effacing joke of mine for the longest time had been that, for someone morbibly fascinated with the morbid, i sure didn't know how it was to lose someone to death. that changed in June this year with the departing of my 87-yo father (hence, my mother's text reminder.) and i am going old-school here by lighting him a candle; i hope he doesn't mind that it is mango-papaya-scented instead of the traditional stuff. i have not yet grieved him and i do not know how to, but that's another drunken Grim Fandango story.i mentioned once on mog that my father introduced me to The Platters and The Andrews Sisters, among others. i literally grew up singing along to Twilight Time, it was always my favorite of his music. one day i caught it made into a vampire's theme song in an awesome vampire movie called Blood & Donuts by Holly Dale (1995, Canadian, featuring David Cronenberg, and it's really a love triangle story, too.); it was also used for The X-Files. and it clicked in my head that Twilight Time was the Killing Moon of the fifties, so i fell in love with it all the more.Twilight Time is the original music and lyrics of Buck Ram, Marty Nevens, Al Nevens, and Artie Dunn in 1944. this is its earliest known recording by The Platters, as far as i know, circa 1958. here in the sweet and same old way, i fall in love again as i did then. deep in the dark your kiss will thrill me like days of old. i ask you: are these not the words of a hundred centuries old immortal without Blade's daywalking ability?on video, a DVD trailer for Blood & Donuts - in German, but you get the idea - featuring Bloodletting (The Vampire Song) by Concrete Blonde. oh you were a vampire and baby i am walking dead.

Comments (20)

  1. Cody B says Beautiful post..you packed a lot of heart (and music) in it.
    Permalink posted 11/02/2007
  2. scotfree says Once again, realities are (sorta) synced. While the title of The Platter's tune was vaguely familiar, the music itself (or commercialized version thereof) is something I hear very frequently. We have a local restaurant chain in the Cinci area that has -bastardized- utilized that tune for many years to entice patronage for their colby cheese & chili laced spaghetti. As stated in the Wiki "Skyline commercials are known for their theme song and catch phrase, "Whenever you're feeling good and hungry. It's Skyline Time," sung to the tune of Twilight Time by The Platters " http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Skyline_Chili I can't find any audio, but maybe this will make you drool: Fattening yes, but a bit of lunch cuisine that is at times irresistable. Thanks to you (and your Pop) for showing the way to the original. Bless his soul.
    Permalink posted 11/02/2007
  3. leftoverking says from one part time catholic to another, happy all saint's day. i don't think it matters when you light the candle. it's the thought that counts! :) maybe you should light it at twilight? great tune, your dad had good taste.
    Permalink posted 11/02/2007
  4. scotfree says Oh, the movie looks tasty as well. Added it to my list of things I'm not likely to find around here! :)
    Permalink posted 11/02/2007
  5. Cody B says That 3way looks real good..mmm
    Permalink posted 11/02/2007
  6. Dzendvokh says SKYYYYYYYLINE Damn its lunch time here and I am sorely missing skyline right about now. sorry about that poe, thanks for the post and the music, much appreciated even if my stomach doesn't. (actually that's scott's fault so blame him for hijacking your thread)
    Permalink posted 11/02/2007
  7. walkingthecow says it's cool to remember your dad by listening to them.
    Permalink posted 11/02/2007
  8. Girlcrawl says To twilight memories... Matakot ka sa buhay huwag sa patay.
    Permalink posted 11/02/2007
  9. poebegone says Cody: thanks. i sure thought about my father a lot this halloween. and i am with ya on the yum-looking 3way. scotfree: awesome story. the only issue i have with food is that i absolutely love it. i never knew about Skyline but i love a good Bolognese (and i love cheese), and man that pic is making me crave one right now. that secret Cinci chili recipe with alleged chocolate and cinnamon is so intriguing - mental noted. leftoverking: part-time catholic - love that. i followed your suggestion then realized i did not know what time twilight is exactly. i decided on just after sunset anyhow.
    Permalink posted 11/03/2007
  10. poebegone says Dzen: it's no problem, i would love to try Skyline myself right about now. walkingthecow: hey, never thought of it that way, how cool is that! Girlcrawl: what an awesome pic, and you had me LOLing over that little Tagalog snippet. (; where'd you get? Danny would totally dig that.
    Permalink posted 11/03/2007
  11. soulrocket says sorry to get so late here. mog has been all bugged again and i didnt receive notification of this post. it was good i decided to come back for inspiration. this was beautifuly written , poe. and the song was very appropiated. i really dig anything coming from the philippines, i cant explain why... maybe i was there in another life.. if so, sorry i invaded your land like that. we were fools back then. i stopped going to the cemetery long time ago, i am more bhuddist than catholic myself, and so i believe in reincarnation. since all the dead people should be reincarnated already i always found these rituals kind of weird. but on the other hand i cant help paying respect for the people that was here before and helped make my life easier. kind of a contradiction, but that is life. of all the catholic ceremonies this might be the one that is the most beautiful. what does it mean this? Matakot ka sa buhay huwag sa patay
    Permalink posted 11/06/2007
  12. Tranquil Rain says I am catholic myself as well [just not a traditional or regularly practicing one]- and I was actually born on All Saint's day. In any case, I have noticed that catholic americans do not celebrate all soul's day or all saint's day or put much cultural or ritualistic symbolism into it as other countries such as the Philippines or Mexico or any of the latin countries who embrace catholicism. I kind of envy those countries. I am not a hardcore religious freak but being catholic is part of my roots and in some ways, I am drawn to the ritualistic aspects of it. This was a fascinating entry and moving- it was such a nice way to pay tribute to your father. Thanks for sharing!
    Permalink posted 11/06/2007
  13. Girlcrawl says It was in part from memory, but I feared that I would mutilate the proverb so I researched it. Forget where on the web I located it because the browser history has been cleared. Think I searched within wiki, and followed a link referenced. Am glad you enjoyed - thought you might. A most poignant post; my condolences for your lost.
    Permalink posted 11/07/2007
  14. poebegone says Danny, i was baptized Catholic by circumstance, but i do not believe in organized religion for the most part. i do believe in faith, and that it is the natural course of things to eventually fall into place, and that there are forces greater than myself, such as, possibly, reincarnation. it is a nightmare to visit a cemetery during All Souls' Day in Manila, it is like Times Square on New Year's Day, the last time i ever went i was 3 yo and i puked to death due to the crowd and heat. the literal translation of Cynthia's Tagalog line above is: be afraid of the living, not of the dead. or as we'd more likely hear from English speakers: the dead can't hurt you. TR, you raise a mighty good point about the ritualistic aspects of Catholicism. quite true. as historians say, Catholic colonizers (absolutely no offense to D!) mixed up their practices with the pagan ways of the, um, pagan folk for easier assimilation, and movies from Walter Salles' Central Station to Baz Luhrmann's Romeo + Juliet were spot-on in depicting this religion, which, far from its most fundamental sense, is so neo-pagan in countries like the Philippines, or Mexico i guess. and anyway, me and my girl friends always talk about how ritualistic we lot are. Cynthia, thanks for trying to track back to it, the meaning is 2 paragraphs above. it is often said in jest, like in movies or just casual talk. i suppose my father is my first official "dearly departed" and All Souls' Day never meant anything death-related to me until this year. nothing like death to draw you to the cemetery, huh? :D i mean, i am generally not even big on lighting candles other than for myself or setting a mood, but instinctively i wanted to do it for my father.
    Permalink posted 11/07/2007
  15. soulrocket says you think right, girl. i do not believe in any religion at all. i dont even like to "believe" or "have faith". i need to see it by myself. i had some sort of revelation years ago & i saw with my own perception how things work in the universe, now there is no reason to believe anymore, now i know. that makes a big difference. it is funny how catholicism is not big in spain anymore, actualy they are "importing" southamerican priests and nuns in order to fill the jobs because nobody seems to be interested anymore. and that feels good.
    Permalink posted 11/08/2007
  16. poebegone says hey now, you do believe in one thing, you believe in music. (; i did not realize Catholicism isn't big in Spain anymore. how interesting. Spain was a Catholic stronghold for so long, no? what happened - the religion did not deliver? i think i know the answer to that.
    Permalink posted 11/08/2007
  17. soulrocket says i believe in magic :-) what happened in spain is that the church separated from the state and then they do not influence as much now, as a result the only thing that is still illegal here is euthanasia, but we dealt with the rest that the church said it was a sin.. like abortion, gay marriages, divorce,... and it felt damn good doing it. now if we just could get rid of the catholic guilt, but that will take quite a long time yet to happen. hope you are doing well :-)
    Permalink posted 11/09/2007
  18. poebegone says brilliant answer. (; so true, about Catholic guilt. i carry it with me to this day, whether i like it or not, and it rears its ugly head in the most unexpected moments (like life-changing decisions).
    Permalink posted 11/11/2007
  19. soulrocket says the catholicism was one of the "gifts" we brought to the world a few centuries ago. sorry about that. not that i feel guilty about it, it wasnt me anyway ;-) it takes some time & dedication to get rid of guilty feelings, but it can be done. perseverance and patting your own back a lot makes the trick. in a nut is about to replace the guilt program in your brain for a new "everything i do is well done. good or bad is only on my mind" chip.
    Permalink posted 11/11/2007
  20. poebegone says so this is the bold and fearless demeanor that feeds that love of bold and fearless funk. =p
    Permalink posted 11/16/2007

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