R.I.P. Dave Wanger, even though I feel weird mentioning it

Posted about 5 years ago
:http://cdn.scratchrecords.com/moreinfo.cfm?Product_ID=11017&CFID=594104&CFTOKEN=52977On the weekend, I was talking to "Nathan and Caila":/Shapes_and_Sizes about a rumour they'd heard that Dave Wanger had been killed in some kind of car crash, maybe hit by a car, in Montreal. None of us knew how to confirm this, and I don't think I'm the only one who felt a bit weird about wanting to know, because none of us really knew the guy and mostly recognize him from shows, and by many accounts he was kind of a dick. It's pretty normal to care about a guy you used to see around in your town, but it gets weird when that guy sometimes "gets called a Godhead":http://goldkicks.blogspot.com/2005/07/daddys-hands-again.html, a major "songwriting influence":http://goldkicks.blogspot.com/2004_12_01_goldkicks_archive.html on "Frog Eyes":/music/Frog_Eyes, "Wolf Parade":/music/Wolf_Parade, Atlas Strategic, Sunset Rubdown, etc. It made me want to tread carefully, in order to avoid looking exploitative or like a groupie, so instead of doing something normal like calling a person who knew Wanger better, I ended up Googling for mentions of Dave Wanger on mySpace.I turned up this "R.I.P. Dave Wanger?":http://chinablogs.livejournal.com/2772.html entry, which I actually really liked. He was hit by a car and killed on November 22. I'm not the only one who feels weird for taking note.This reminds me of when Elliot Smith died. My friend emailed me the news while I was away travelling, and I felt the same kind of conflict between wanting to care because I respected the guy's music and wished him well, and then wanting to stay detached, to not make too much of celebrity, or pretend I had a special bond with someone I only knew through songs and shows. I don't want to act like Dave Wanger was a mega-celebrity either; but that only makes it more touchy, since unknowns are even more impressive to indie kids. Ah, the modern age.I suppose all that's left is to link to some music. Hive Studios in Vancouver has some old, "unreleased Daddy's Hands tracks":http://www.hivestudios.net/audio.php#unreleased from 1998, where you can hear the Victoria swamp-rock thing in full effect.bq. - "dilban straddles flab, by Daddy's Hands":http://www.hivestudios.net/Unreleased/Daddys_Hands/dilban_straddles_flab.mp3bq. - "Incest at Best (Daddy's Hands cover), by Tam":http://www.mp3.com/stories/5289.html (click the "play single" button)I think there's a new album by the reformed version of Daddy's Hands in the can somewhere, waiting to be put out. More rumours: it's supposed to be awesome. I hope someone actually releases it.

Comments (3)

  1. Spencer Owen says Well-worded. Brings up a thought I've had before, which is - many of the musicians I admire are of my parents' age, maybe give or take 15 years... which means that if I live a long life, they'll all die while I'm alive. It's hard to imagine how that will feel.
    Permalink posted 11/30/2006
  2. ookpik says Spencer, another weird thought is what would happen if you were 15 years older than all the musicians you admired, and you died while they were all still alive. Or what if you made music that old people liked, and all your fans died? I sound like I'm doing bong hits over here. But I think I need some new words for different kinds of relationships. My ________ died. Something on the same level of intimacy as, e.g., "city councillor."
    Permalink posted 11/30/2006
  3. Kent Lambert says I very much appreciate this thoughtful post. I also feel the conflict you describe when I learn of the death of a musician or artist I admire. Music allows for the illusion of a personal or intimate connection to someone you may never meet, and I think it's easy to elevate that person to a superhuman or mythical status when they are no longer living and breathing. I suppose when that person is notorious for being a dick it can be even more confusing. I'm not sure I can help you with the linguistic thing--pass me the bong and I'll see what I can do ha ha. Spencer, your comment makes me think of a random thought I had recently: out of the blue, I imagined the inevitable day when Willie Nelson will die and started to prepare myself for how incredibly sad I will be when it comes. I don't even listen to his music all that much, but knowing he's still making it is somehow deeply comforting. If I start to think like you about all of the other people who may go while I'm alive (if I'm lucky enough to live for a while longer) I can barely stand it... Happy Friday, friends
    Permalink posted 12/01/2006

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