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Posted over 4 years ago
no, but it would be nice. it was over a year ago since the last time. won't settle. enjoy my time spent. concerned about the ones i _do_ meet. but still, it would be nice..._i did love this man then, and he loved me. and we loved big old bertha (that's her up in the back) together_
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  1. SatisfiedMind614
    SatisfiedMind614 says Thanks for sharing K...so many amazing songs on this subject...I have met the right girl at the wrong time once or twice in my life...its such a bittersweet thing...mostly bitter in the end...but it reminds me of one of my favorite quotes ever: I was never one to patiently pick up broken fragments and glue them together again and tell myself that the mended whole was as good as new. What is broken is broken, and I'd rather remember it as it was at its best than mend it and see the broken places as long as I lived. - Margaret Mitchell I don't know how to post a song on the comments...so ill do a little long distance dedication for you as soon as I find said song b
    Permalink posted 06/25/2007
  2. Marigold
    Marigold says Sorry to hear it did not work out. Feist says in the song "Let it Die".... The saddest part of a broken heart Isn't the ending so much as the start The tragedy starts from the very first spark Losing your mind for the sake of your heart Hang in there girl! Were pulling for ya!
    Permalink posted 06/25/2007
  3. SatisfiedMind614
    SatisfiedMind614 says Good one Marigold...That Feist song is perfect!
    Permalink posted 06/25/2007
  4. kaleef
    kaleef says ahh, thanks b! and wonderful quote, true in its fact. looking back, the good times are all i can remember. i look at my single girlfriends and they just calmly look right back at me. we are in no hurry, but it would be nice to share a life. laugh. it’s a little nutso to be thinking like this. since last february i have sabotaged romance. i am not so scared now and i find myself opening up. always interesting when you see yourself changing, when you realize you had little choice in that change, and are intrigued to see what that change makes out of you. and marigold, thanks, great song i love that part, the start is the heart break. full of hope. but don't be concerned about me!! i will be fine, i know it, just, it would be nice... that's all :)
    Permalink posted 06/25/2007
  5. juepucta
    juepucta says Heatbreak's a bitch. I know being burnt has made me avoid opening up and even cold sometimes. You don't want to become vulnerable give heartbreak a chance. But man, when it happens it is goooooooood. As a lovely girl reminded me recently. Plus, it doesn't hurt to have somebody to warm your bed at night. We are all masochistic bastards deep down. Bring the emotional harakiri on! :) -G.
    Permalink posted 06/25/2007
  6. Marigold
    Marigold says I feel like I lived a similar situation. I was in a pretty serious relationship that ended somewhat peacefully...we just realized it was not going to work and mutually ended it.....then enter self doubt, lonelieness, dessperation etc. on my side of things. After a couple months of that I learned that I liked being alone and that it was very nice....then I met the love of my life and well...you know the rest is history. Happilly married for almost 7 years now. I just think that sometimes these things give us perspective on our lives.
    Permalink posted 06/25/2007
  7. kaleef
    kaleef says aaahhh! i love that line, emotional harakiri! so true. and with all my siblings and parents and most of my aunts/uncles divorced or separated, i am pretty sure the ending will end badly. even though we have this knowledge we still do it! we must be insane... marigold, you are fortunate. being alone has always seemed ideal, i've been a "serious" girlfriend 4 times in my life. i now see that the ideal is to be alone _with_ somebody. i think that's attainable. i think.
    Permalink posted 06/25/2007
  8. Marigold
    Marigold says ah yes! The independent releationship. That is what I gotz. I love it. We love hanging out together as much as we each love to be alone on two levels of the house in our own little worlds...Me mogging, her knitting. It is possible, do not lose hope.
    Permalink posted 06/25/2007
  9. Girlcrawl
    Girlcrawl says Fabulous band and song - was intending to compose a post on these guys this week. Sorry to hear about relationship demise, but it seems you have a healthy perspective on the situation and some wondrous MOG emo-support happening so chin up, and cheers!
    Permalink posted 06/25/2007
  10. Lizziegreeneyes
    Lizziegreeneyes says *kaleef:* some lyrics that always make me adjust my thinking... I am not the biggest fan of the Indio Girls - but sometimes they are just what the love doctor ordered. Sorry I couldn't just attach the song... don't yet have it on the pod & it's not on Youtube :) "Guess i wasn't the best one to ask me myself with my face pressed up against love's glass to see the shiny toy i've been hoping for the one i never can afford the wide world spins and spits turmoil and the nations toil for peace but the paws of fear upon your chest only love can soothe that beast and my words are paper tigers no match for the predator of pain inside her... dodging your memories a field of knives always on the outside looking in on other's lives i say love will come to you hoping just because i spoke the words that they're true as if i've offered up a crystal ball to look through where there's now one there will be two and i wish her insight to battle love's blindness strength from the milk of human kindness a safe place for all the pieces that scattered learn to pretend there's more than love that matters"
    Permalink posted 06/25/2007
  11. Me and the Horse I Rode In On
    Me and the Horse I Rode In On says I like that picture. Talk about giving in. You're definitely giving in on that one.
    Permalink posted 06/25/2007
  12. scotfree
    scotfree says 23 years and counting here, so it CAN be done. Many trials and tribulations ( and my wife doesn't even like LCD Soundsystem!) but in a short while we'll boot the third (and most dangerous) spawn from the nest. Good luck world, better luck us!!
    Permalink posted 06/25/2007
  13. Rawkkiddoh
    Rawkkiddoh says it never gets easy, and worse is when memories come out of nowhere to remind you of how good things were. Hope this passes, and love the fact that you name your car as well
    Permalink posted 06/25/2007
  14. soulrocket
    soulrocket says love this post, you almost always post pop music i like. i like to think that my next gf will be even better than my actual one (and i know my actual gf is the greatest girl ever), but i believe that as far as we keep maturing our next partner will fit our new needs. also its time to meet new people & enjoy yourself.
    Permalink posted 06/25/2007
  15. gerekriss
    gerekriss says Sorry, it doesnt work out okay. what i had learn is if you make broken heart too important , then it ruins everything.
    Permalink posted 06/25/2007
  16. steve simon
    steve simon says bless u
    Permalink posted 06/26/2007
  17. ciphermedia
    ciphermedia says You're right, you can't hurry it. It's been over four years since my last serious relationship. I keep thinking she's just around the corner, but every time I look, there's no-one there. I sometimes think the process of looking negates the possibility of anything happening. If I just get on with living my life, then she'll appear. Which I try to do, but she hasn't appeared yet. Luckily I enjoy my own company... and am generally happy being single. Hang in there!
    Permalink posted 06/26/2007
  18. ciphermedia
    ciphermedia says BTW, I think as you get older (I'm nearly 45), the temptation is to settle for someone who is as good as you're going to get. I ain't fer settling!
    Permalink posted 06/26/2007
  19. kaleef
    kaleef says cipher, you got it, JUST SAY NOT TO SETTLING! that is what i like to call a bad decision. i couldn't imagine being that hard up. and thanks to all of your fine positions. you got it right. i shall be patient, and stay hopeful. in the meantime i plan on enjoying my singlehood in this fine singled city. so easy to do when you got friends in the same boat. is it friday yet?
    Permalink posted 06/26/2007
  20. etphhome
    etphhome says kate, my rag mag The Performer spotlights Atlanta once a month usually. June's edition shines on a couple outposts in your area...stuff of classic. corndogorama the masquerade www.myspace.com/openskystudio.com are some sites to keep in mind. hope to some day visit the great state of Georgia. rem hails from athens. peter of rem runs the croc in seattle with his wife a matter of 4 blocks of my work site. going to see tortoise tonight. on capitol hill. peace, peter
    Permalink posted 06/26/2007
  21. kaleef
    kaleef says hey peter, the corndogorama! i know it, and you can bet your ass i will be delighting in cornbreaded hot dogs while listening to marmoset
    Permalink posted 06/27/2007

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