this is an older track and i've always liked it, but not the way i like it now. i find myself blasting it in my car all the time lately and it's because of the lyrics. "you know you're doing better on your own, so don't buy in... just be yourself, it doesn't matter if it's good enough for someone else... after a while everything will be alright..." i love that! :) so for all the ladies our there going through a hard time, i recommend this song, it does wonders on your outlook and attitude..