Memory lane

Posted over 4 years ago

There are four beautiful little girls selling lemonade for 10 cents a glass on the sidewalk next door. All varying shades of blonde, with green and blue eyes and sweet little turned up noses. It's a beautiful, sunny day here, and watching them whisper amongst themselves in anticipation as cars drive down the street reminds me of my own childhood ... how I enjoyed crafting the perfect lemonade stand sign, sitting in the sun with nothing but time on my hands, counting up my newly acquired coins. Those were the days when my father would play James Taylor, Bread, and Carole King on the weekends and my family would sit together after dinner and listen to music. My dad had a great love for classical music also, and I would don my ballerina slippers and dance around the living room while he listened to piano concertos and symphonies. At our house, music was something to be savored, and I remember spending hour upon hour camped out on the floor, laying on my stomach with my head resting on my hands and a pair of huge, bulky headphones strapped around my ears.The intense connection I have with music began early, and I'm thankful that my father instilled the love of music in me. I love music that makes me happy, music that makes me think, music that is constructed well, music that has passion, anger, fire, even music that makes me sad. I still remember the first time a song made me cry ... I think I was seven, and it was James Taylor's "Fire and Rain." I still love that song, and it still has an emotional affect on me ... though not so much now because of the lyrics, but because it reminds me of my father, and how much I miss him. But hearing it is also like an old friend, somebody that's been there all along. There are so many songs that are like that for me, and I know as time goes on there will be many more to accompany me along the way.So this one's for you, dad. Music is one of the best gifts you ever gave me.

Comments (22)

  1. CapnBozo says This is one of the first songs I ever learned how to play on guitar. Very nice post as well.
    Permalink posted 06/23/2007
  2. goodmusiconly says Nice. Thanks Capn.
    Permalink posted 06/23/2007
  3. darmuzz says Even though my dad and I have completely different tastes in music, and he calls anything heavy or weird "acid rock," I got my love of music from what he used to play. Buddy Holly, Everly Brothers, Johnny Cash (whom I never dreamed would ever get hip)...he gave me the idea that music was important. It wasn't just background - it was something to be taken note of. Now when I visit, he will ask me to order CDs for him or look up lyrics for him on the Internet, because he isn't connected. So it is still a connection for us.
    Permalink posted 06/23/2007
  4. debi says What a beautiful tribute to your dad. Although my childhood wasn't quite the same, reading your post brought me back to my own children setting up lemonade stands in the late 80s. Whenever I see neighborhood kids doing so now, I make sure to buy a glass and leave a nice "tip" .
    Permalink posted 06/23/2007
  5. The Time Machine says


    Lovely post.

    : = )





    Permalink posted 06/23/2007
  6. Blue Meenie says Really nice post E. I too remeber layin' out with the HUGE ass headphones plugged in to a major piece of furniture we called a stereo. My Pop wasn't a big music lover, but my Mom would be cranking out old C/W classics and her Engleburt (sp?), Tom Jones, and Charley Pride. Thanks for the memories...
    Permalink posted 06/23/2007
  7. goodmusiconly says darmuzz, yeah, that's it for me too ... ultimately my own preferences veered to punk rock and other heavier genres than what he played. But he impressed the importance of it on me. My brothers and I gave him some musical gifts back too ... one day I got into his car, and he was playing none other than Rob Zombie at deafening volume. I just about fell off the seat I was laughing so hard. Thanks Debi, Time Machine, R. :)
    Permalink posted 06/23/2007
  8. lucyintheskies says this is a beautiful post. gorgeous and vivid. the girls commiserating out at the lemonade stand, the visual image of those too big headphones that i remember wearing myself, and james taylor. i feel like i just walked through a memory of my childhood, too. thank you for posting this. and, 'fire and rain', it is part of that life soundtrack we all have. it reminds me of my mother, of my best friend, and of long car rides singing along to this. on a personal level it always reminded me of missing people, of growing up, and saying goodbye. it was not until recently that i found out it was about addiction, and getting clean. and, also about a friend of james taylor's that passed away while he was in rehab (if i remember correctly). i love this song. lucy.
    Permalink posted 06/23/2007
  9. Lizziegreeneyes says I swear to you E, we must be sisters in a past life. My friends & I would lay down in between the two speakers & play Fire & Rain over & over & over again - did it all the way through high school !!! Your words touched me, even shed a couple tears, a beautiful dedication. My parents were instrumental in my music appreciation as well. Steely Dan, Carol King, JT & Carly Simon, Beatles, Dylan & The Stones (Mum), Buddy Holly, Four Tops, Kingston Trio (Da). My Mum still comes to me for anything new... says it keeps her young & it's been the best gift for us to always share music - I have to say I agree. (I even got her to listen to some of the harder stuff - but never +Rob Zombie+ Your Father was a true *rocker*) !!! Big hugs :)
    Permalink posted 06/23/2007
  10. goodmusiconly says Thanks lucy ... your posts frequently have the same affect on me. seriously. :) Lizzie, aww, thanks hon! Just goes to show it's never too late to acquire another sibling. Hugs back atcha darlink :)
    Permalink posted 06/23/2007
  11. Rawkkiddoh says Nice touch erin, and great post
    Permalink posted 06/23/2007
  12. ROCKNROLLPIMP says LOVELY POST touched my wounded heart you know :p then again lately sabbath would touch my wounded heart..... J/K J/K! thanks for the smile girl
    Permalink posted 06/23/2007
  13. White and Nerdy says Music, that gift that keeps on giving...whether you like it or not. My parents were the least musical people ever, sadly I can't claim the music nurturing lifestyle you enjoyed. Nice post! I thought that was Elvis in the photo, at first glance.
    Permalink posted 06/23/2007
  14. Dale says Awww, sweet post E. I have similar feelings toward Eric Clapton's "Lay Down Sally", tied to sitting at my mother's feet as she listened to the radio while sewing.
    Permalink posted 06/23/2007
  15. goodmusiconly says K,K,S and D - danke :) _"I thought that was Elvis in the photo, at first glance."_ hah, that's great. Nope, that's "Daddy-o Andretti" as I called him (we are a family of fast drivers), and me in my very own pre-GapKids mini 70s leisure suit. yikes. ;)
    Permalink posted 06/24/2007
  16. darmuzz says That photo is actually of you and your dad! Perfection!!
    Permalink posted 06/24/2007
  17. MadMike4 says Soundtracks of my childhood; influential records Meet The Beatles A Hard Days Night Beatles '65 Help Tea For The Tillerman After The Gold Rush I've made it a point to make cds of this music for my own daughters who are now 8 and 10 years old. They seem to love it and I really wanted to share.
    Permalink posted 06/24/2007
  18. mktackabery says Great post Erin, really special memories obviously. I never sold lemonade when I was a kid - movies were the big Sunday thing for my family, at least with my Mom and us kids. Fire and Rain, though reminds me of one particular summer when I was about 12. It was our second summer in NC, and my mother had finally found us a summer activity she could handle - a summer program for city kids sponsored by Parks and Rec, and we had a music appreciation class in it which basically consisted of this college-age counselor playing records he liked for us. One of which was James Taylor's greatest hits. It was my first memory of hearing James Taylor.
    Permalink posted 06/24/2007
  19. Dale says Wait a sec, that's lil' baby E there?!? Awwww, so cute!
    Permalink posted 06/24/2007
  20. chucky says Music loving dads are the best dads in the whole damn world. I salute them all.
    Permalink posted 06/24/2007
  21. Mike the Knife says Adorable and revealing and poetic, to boot. And what a cutie pie, riveted by Daddy and the magical turntable...
    Permalink posted 06/24/2007
  22. bringmeup says You can never, ever go wrong with James Taylor! =o)
    Permalink posted 06/26/2007

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