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Album Review: Mary J. Blige Growing Pains

Posted about 1 year ago
Two years after The Breakthrough, Mary J. Blige is back. This time the Queen of Hip-Hop Soul has arrived to reassert her womanhood, with an album centered around female empowerment and the ups and downs of her relationships. Such are the usual ingredients of Ms. Blige's albums, but whereas 2005's The Breakthrough marked the initial celebration of putting her troubled past behind her, with 2007's Growing Pains Mary comes across as an assured, grounded and proud woman. It's no wonder Growing Pains hit #1 on the Billboard charts during its second week of release.
Appropriately enough, the album's second single "Work That," opens the album to offer an anthem of confidence for women everywhere. "Work what you got. It's gonna be fine," she sings. It's hard not to believe her, considering she's a woman whose inspirations come from what she knows.
"Grown Woman," is a harder hitting song, featuring a weak, somewhat annoying, rap cameo from Ludacris. Asserting her grown woman status, Mary boldly states, "I keep it covered up cuz I'm a lady. I know how to show a little somethin' somethin'. You can't see what's under there 'cause I'm a grown woman. I'm so sexy." Take that, all you scantily clad females!
"Just Fine," a track co-produced by hitmaker Jazze Pha, is the most radio-ready song on the album. It might take a little getting past the sheer corniness of the song ("Girl power!" is written all over this one), but once you do you'll be celebrating Blige's successes right along with her, perhaps taking her words on as your own self-affirmations.
The Neptunes-produced track "Til the Morning" conjures up a glittery, sweat-filled night on the dance floor. It harkens back to disco days, and if there's one thing MJB can do, it's bring the funk. The Neptunes, of course, know how to provide that funky rhythm that Mary hasn't been heard on enough. "Hurt Again" is another track that brings more of an old school, soulful feel to this album, an element that was missing on her previous release. Harmonizing hooks make this a classic sounding R&B slow jam. "What Love Is" presents itself as a bit of a throwback tune, with lyrics explaining love to be joy, pain, sunshine, and rain. Rob Base surely knows this. "Smoke," falls into the realm of slowed down, soulful goodness from Ms. Mary, sounding at times like a Stevie Wonder-assisted song, but it must be Ne-Yo's songwriter's touch.
Too much crooning and Mary loses me. Such is the majority of the end of the album. A few too many songs saying the same thing, over not so innovative beats (Sorry, Ne-Yo. "Fade Away," just didn't do much). MJB would've been wiser to leave off a couple of these, slow songs, so as not to bog down the end of Growing Pains. However, she rounds it out nicely with "Come To Me (Peace)" to bring the album's message full circle, as she puts her heart on the line, proclaiming she's ready to mend a relationship. "I'm here to make peace," she sings.
While The Breakthrough, was a showy, at times over-produced album that dealt with Mary triumphing over her demons, Growing Pains finds our star presenting herself in a cohesive, triumphant light as the grown woman she knows she finally is.

Comments (18)

  1. Jo says Great review Brittany, thanks ever so much - based on your review, I've put this album on my personal 'tunes to download' list (but because of your 'too much crooning' remark, personally I don't handle 'too ballady' well, I'll have a listen through before deciding on wether to go for the entire album, or just pick those songs that sound most appealing to me).
    Permalink posted 01/07/2008
  2. TroyPowers says I agree. Good review. I picked up this album for my mom, but haven't given it a listen. I'll have to check it out. I must say, I wish she hadn't dissed the scantily clad women of the world. I like mine half to three-quarters naked. :)
    Permalink posted 01/08/2008
  3. ciecierega says great review. i love her and i'm going to check this one out. i don't think it will be one of my favorite mary j. albums, but definitely like revisiting an old friend.
    Permalink posted 01/08/2008
  4. Sturgell says Back in the day(2001) I remember seeing her ??No More Drama?? posters everywhere in NYC. She looked so different then.
    Permalink posted 01/08/2008
  5. HelenMarie says Love the Neptunes, so I'd really like to hear that "Til the Morning" track. Nicely done review.
    Permalink posted 01/08/2008
  6. zarpex says Yours is the first piece of writing I've ever come across, Brittany, that actually made me suspect I might have been missing something by ignoring Mary J. Blige all these years. I think seeing your digital music collection next to it might have influenced my reaction. Is there a particular album of hers you'd suggest a novice start with?
    Permalink posted 01/08/2008
  7. SexualChocolate says Coincidentally when i was reading this i was watching a performance of her on a late night show. I never been a real hardcore Mary Fan thats not to say I don't like her , just never bought an album. Your review was honest enough so who knows i might get it.
    Permalink posted 01/08/2008
  8. The Joshua Cain Band says Thanks for the kind words!!! do you really Not like U2? Is that even possible!!!
    Permalink posted 01/09/2008
  9. Simonie says Thanks for the comment! What did you think of Band of Horses after all?
    Permalink posted 01/09/2008
  10. genrepoza says good reveiw there brittster. I dont like blige at all but let me tell you a story about MONICA! I like monica. the end
    Permalink posted 01/10/2008
  11. Coramazing says Were you talking about Say Anything? Because if you were, they ARE amazing haha.
    Permalink posted 01/11/2008
  12. scotfree says Hey, that's some real nice words there! I've heard bits and pieces, now you've made me want more. Thanks!
    Permalink posted 01/11/2008
  13. 2Serenity says I will then have to check this album out! Everyone has said I am missing out but your review totally solidified that! =) Great use of the power of persuasion!
    Permalink posted 01/11/2008
  14. uppanotch says Fly...
    Permalink posted 01/18/2008
  15. Vtshome says A little late with this comment but Mary J has always been one of my favorite R&B artist. to think of it she has been around for a long time. Thanks Brittiny
    Permalink posted 01/20/2008
  16. Jammy Jeff says The Neptunes and Blige has got to be a good conglomeration. They can't fail.
    Permalink posted 01/25/2008
  17. Elton Noon says mary j. is my woman. saw her on the View. good stuff.
    Permalink posted 03/27/2008
  18. Sturgell says I remember living back in NYC when ??No More Drama?? came out. She looks so brawler in the promo posters in that. Then later seeing her in other more candid shots, it turns out shes just some regular looking gal.
    Permalink posted 04/26/2008

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