Track: Are You Gonna Be My Girl - Acoustic Version
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so my girlfriend is all im going to be drunk all week cause she is partying for the end of the year.
i hate when she drinks around other guys.
is that weird?
One hates to see anyone drinking to the point of lost dignity, male, female or any of the variations. Drinking to get hammered is a loser's game. Don't get me wrong, I'm no puritan! I believe you should do what you want to do as long as you hurt no one and you maintain your responsibilities, personal & professional.
Party on....
I think it's weird. She drank around other guys before you, right? More than likely she'll do it after you too.
Either you trust her or you don't. Don't make it an issue of whether or not you trust the people around her. You should trust your girlfriend to make the right decisions regardless if you're standing next to her or a zillion miles away.
If the trust isnt there, you have nothing. Break it off, and find someone you feel like you can trust fully.
If it really bothers you, talk to her, and let her know how you feel. Especially if you really feel like it can make or break your relationship. Good luck.
"i hate when she drinks around other guys. is that weird?"
It might be weird if all that bothers you is literally that she's drinking around other guys. Meaning, does it follow that you wouldn't be bothered if she was drinking with a group of women only?
For me the issue would be whether or not she habitually drinks to excess, regardless of the company she keeps while doing it. It's not clear from your remarks if the drinking itself is problematic. If it is, then it needs to stop -- because as Brittany points out, bad things do tend to happen.
This is not necessarily your problem to solve -- it depends how much you care about her and whether you want the relationship to continue. But if you do take it up with her, making it about the gender of her drinking pals won't put you on very solid footing.
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One hates to see anyone drinking to the point of lost dignity, male, female or any of the variations. Drinking to get hammered is a loser's game. Don't get me wrong, I'm no puritan! I believe you should do what you want to do as long as you hurt no one and you maintain your responsibilities, personal & professional. Party on....
My Trusted MOGs
I think it's weird. She drank around other guys before you, right? More than likely she'll do it after you too. Either you trust her or you don't. Don't make it an issue of whether or not you trust the people around her. You should trust your girlfriend to make the right decisions regardless if you're standing next to her or a zillion miles away.
If the trust isnt there, you have nothing. Break it off, and find someone you feel like you can trust fully.
If it really bothers you, talk to her, and let her know how you feel. Especially if you really feel like it can make or break your relationship. Good luck.
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ooo i hate drinking. it hurts and bad things happen.
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"i hate when she drinks around other guys. is that weird?"
It might be weird if all that bothers you is literally that she's drinking around other guys. Meaning, does it follow that you wouldn't be bothered if she was drinking with a group of women only?
For me the issue would be whether or not she habitually drinks to excess, regardless of the company she keeps while doing it. It's not clear from your remarks if the drinking itself is problematic. If it is, then it needs to stop -- because as Brittany points out, bad things do tend to happen.
This is not necessarily your problem to solve -- it depends how much you care about her and whether you want the relationship to continue. But if you do take it up with her, making it about the gender of her drinking pals won't put you on very solid footing.
Just my 2 cents, obviously.