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Somewhere…there’s a couple who started the growing tradition of assembling, burning and distributing mix CDs as keepsakes at weddings. So much for matchbooks as marriage mementos.

The first wedding CD that I encountered was handed out about five years ago when my longtime fellow nightclub habitué Shannon married her beau Michael. They gave out discs that featured music played during the ceremony and at the reception. Selections included gruff vocalist Tom Waits’ moving rendition of the achingly romantic “Somewhere” from the musical “West Side Story,” and, before it had been completely played out, singer-songwriter Norah Jones’ contemplative love song “Come Away with Me.” The CD cover was as simple and elegant as a wedding invitation: The names of the bride and groom and the date of the nuptials. I suppose it shouldn’t be a surprise that every time I hear Waits sing “Somewhere,” I think of Shannon and Michael.

Things have gotten a little more elaborate on the wedding CD front. Another couple that I know – Scott and Mona – recently produced a beauty to celebrate their union. Scott is a major fan of the Beatles; and Mona is a photographer and designer. For their commemorative disc, Mona took a shot of the twosome and their longhair Chihuahua, Ringo, and created a reproduction of the classic cover that graced the Fab Four’s American debut album Meet the Beatles (including font and color scheme). The inside cover of the souvenir served as a program for the wedding ceremony, while the label on the CD itself recalled the design of the old Capitol Records logo, only retooled as “S & M Records.”

Tracks on the CD ranged from ”Here, There & Everywhere,” “Something” and “Real Love” by the Beatles, “Oh My Love” by a solo John Lennon, and a cover of the Lennon-McCartney song “The Two of Us” by Aimee Mann and Michael Penn to modern folk/cabaret singer Nellie McKay’s tongue-in-cheek “I Wanna Get Married,” jazz legend Louis Armstrong’s “We Have All the Time in the World” (from the James Bond film “On Her Majesty’s Secret Service”), and cool thrush Julie London’s rendition of “Fly Me to the Moon.” On the more rockin’ tip, they threw in the Cure’s “Lovesong,” the Kinks’ “You Really Got Me,” New Model Army’s “Love Songs” and, paying tribute to the rather unique city where they fell in love, the Arctic Monkeys’ “Fake Tales of San Francisco” and the Jam’s “Strange Town.” And there’s more, including a handful of nifty hidden tracks.

I could tell that Scott was thrilled to hand out the CDs to all of us who attended the reception. As for the album itself, it was such a sweet gesture, not to mention easy on the ears. Whenever I play the CD or look at the cover, it’ll be a lovely way for me to remember my friends’ special day, and their affection for one another.

I’d say that, as traditions go, this one’s a keeper.

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ivylander says:

Indeed. Mrs. Ivylander's cousin got married a couple of years ago and gave out a beaut of a mix, which is still on regular rotation in her car. Stevie Wonder's "Ribbon In The Sky" is the linchpin of the CD - a perfect marriage song, when you think about it....

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Bartleby says:

Funny tradition which I haven't encountered anywhere else outside the US of A. I attended French weddings where keepsakes were confectioneries called "dragée" and sometimes dried flowers with the newly-weds' names on a ribbon. I also attended one Portuguese wedding where I was presented with a miniature pottery (a lovely vase it was). The only mix-CD I had from a wedding was one of some friends in Santa Monica. The choice I must say, well romantic.

I wonder if anyone could enlighten with regards other connubial keepsake traditions in their countries.

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Well, out here in deadmandeadman country we hand out "bones" (chuckle, chuckle, nudge, nudge, wink, wink, wot?)
But yes, the cd mix is making appearances at more "events" every year. Weddings, Proms, & parties have all been commemorated of late with choice mixes.

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wassonii says:

What a beautiful version of this song.
I kind of like this tradition, too. So far, no Journey:)

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Augusts1 says:

I'm not big on weddings & haven't gone to one in a very long time but this tradition might just make it worth going for(keyword being might). But then again the free food & beverages would help too!

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jenny says:

Beats the hell out of "I Knew the Bride When She Used to Rock and Roll" and the Chicken Dance, anyway.

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ivylander: Mix still in play, years later? Now that's an endorsement. You gotta hope the marriage lasts as long.

Bartleby: I'm thinking that we're on the forefront of musical marital mementos here in the U.S. Francophile that I am, I tried putting dried flowers in the CD player to no avail. Maybe the "dragée" will work.

deadmandeadman: From all the evidence, I'm sure they're dem dry bones.

wassonii: Yeah. Tom gets it and goes deep. BTW , I think Meadow Soprano might put "Don't Stop Believin'" on her wedding mix, so be prepared.

August: Food, drink, music, desperate bridesmaids...Sounds like a good time.

jenny: Can't say anything bad about the music of Dave Edmunds and Nick Lowe, but I'd like to call for a nationwide ban on the Chicken Dance.

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"...................but I'd like to call for a nationwide ban on the Chicken Dance".
You have my vote.

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wassonii says:

Well, I'll second the vote provided there is an exception for Tiny Tim versions:)
Mike, when will Steve Perry's voice ever leave my brain?

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wassonii: Well, that's that. No more Chicken Dance, except if Tiny Tim returns from the grave, uke in hand.

And when will Steve Perry's voice leave your brain? Never! (Unless you will it. Make it so!)

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Torch says:

What a great idea. I wish I had used it last year...

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Torch: Belated congratulations! Hope all is still groovy...

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