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With This Mix, I Thee Wed

Posted about 1 year ago
Somewhere…there’s a couple who started the growing tradition of assembling, burning and distributing mix CDs as keepsakes at weddings. So much for matchbooks as marriage mementos.The first wedding CD that I encountered was handed out about five years ago when my longtime fellow nightclub habitué Shannon married her beau Michael. They gave out discs that featured music played during the ceremony and at the reception. Selections included gruff vocalist Tom Waits’ moving rendition of the achingly romantic “Somewhere” from the musical “West Side Story,” and, before it had been completely played out, singer-songwriter Norah Jones’ contemplative love song “Come Away with Me.” The CD cover was as simple and elegant as a wedding invitation: The names of the bride and groom and the date of the nuptials. I suppose it shouldn’t be a surprise that every time I hear Waits sing “Somewhere,” I think of Shannon and Michael.Things have gotten a little more elaborate on the wedding CD front. Another couple that I know – Scott and Mona – recently produced a beauty to celebrate their union. Scott is a major fan of the Beatles; and Mona is a photographer and designer. For their commemorative disc, Mona took a shot of the twosome and their longhair Chihuahua, Ringo, and created a reproduction of the classic cover that graced the Fab Four’s American debut album Meet the Beatles (including font and color scheme). The inside cover of the souvenir served as a program for the wedding ceremony, while the label on the CD itself recalled the design of the old Capitol Records logo, only retooled as “S & M Records.”Tracks on the CD ranged from ”Here, There & Everywhere,” “Something” and “Real Love” by the Beatles, “Oh My Love” by a solo John Lennon, and a cover of the Lennon-McCartney song “The Two of Us” by Aimee Mann and Michael Penn to modern folk/cabaret singer Nellie McKay’s tongue-in-cheek “I Wanna Get Married,” jazz legend Louis Armstrong’s “We Have All the Time in the World” (from the James Bond film “On Her Majesty’s Secret Service”), and cool thrush Julie London’s rendition of “Fly Me to the Moon.” On the more rockin’ tip, they threw in the Cure’s “Lovesong,” the Kinks’ “You Really Got Me,” New Model Army’s “Love Songs” and, paying tribute to the rather unique city where they fell in love, the Arctic Monkeys’ “Fake Tales of San Francisco” and the Jam’s “Strange Town.” And there’s more, including a handful of nifty hidden tracks.I could tell that Scott was thrilled to hand out the CDs to all of us who attended the reception. As for the album itself, it was such a sweet gesture, not to mention easy on the ears. Whenever I play the CD or look at the cover, it’ll be a lovely way for me to remember my friends’ special day, and their affection for one another.I’d say that, as traditions go, this one’s a keeper.

Comments (24)

  1. ivylander says Indeed. Mrs. Ivylander's cousin got married a couple of years ago and gave out a beaut of a mix, which is still on regular rotation in her car. Stevie Wonder's "Ribbon In The Sky" is the linchpin of the CD - a perfect marriage song, when you think about it....
    Permalink posted 05/03/2008
  2. Bartleby says Funny tradition which I haven't encountered anywhere else outside the US of A. I attended French weddings where keepsakes were confectioneries called "dragée" and sometimes dried flowers with the newly-weds' names on a ribbon. I also attended one Portuguese wedding where I was presented with a miniature pottery (a lovely vase it was). The only mix-CD I had from a wedding was one of some friends in Santa Monica. The choice I must say, well romantic. I wonder if anyone could enlighten with regards other connubial keepsake traditions in their countries.
    Permalink posted 05/03/2008
  3. deadmandeadman says Well, out here in deadmandeadman country we hand out "bones" (chuckle, chuckle, nudge, nudge, wink, wink, wot?) But yes, the cd mix is making appearances at more "events" every year. Weddings, Proms, & parties have all been commemorated of late with choice mixes.
    Permalink posted 05/03/2008
  4. wassonii says What a beautiful version of this song. I kind of like this tradition, too. So far, no Journey:)
    Permalink posted 05/03/2008
  5. Augusts1 says I'm not big on weddings & haven't gone to one in a very long time but this tradition might just make it worth going for(keyword being might). But then again the free food & beverages would help too!
    Permalink posted 05/03/2008
  6. jenny says Beats the hell out of "I Knew the Bride When She Used to Rock and Roll" and the Chicken Dance, anyway.
    Permalink posted 05/04/2008
  7. Mike the Knife says ivylander: Mix still in play, years later? Now that's an endorsement. You gotta hope the marriage lasts as long. Bartleby: I'm thinking that we're on the forefront of musical marital mementos here in the U.S. Francophile that I am, I tried putting dried flowers in the CD player to no avail. Maybe the "dragée" will work. deadmandeadman: From all the evidence, I'm sure they're dem dry bones. wassonii: Yeah. Tom gets it and goes deep. BTW, I think Meadow Soprano might put "Don't Stop Believin'" on her wedding mix, so be prepared. August: Food, drink, music, desperate bridesmaids...Sounds like a good time. jenny: Can't say anything bad about the music of Dave Edmunds and Nick Lowe, but I'd like to call for a nationwide ban on the Chicken Dance.
    Permalink posted 05/04/2008
  8. deadmandeadman says **"...................but I'd like to call for a nationwide ban on the Chicken Dance".** You have my vote.
    Permalink posted 05/04/2008
  9. wassonii says Well, I'll second the vote provided there is an exception for Tiny Tim versions:) Mike, when will Steve Perry's voice ever leave my brain?
    Permalink posted 05/05/2008
  10. Mike the Knife says wassonii: Well, that's that. No more Chicken Dance, except if Tiny Tim returns from the grave, uke in hand. And when will Steve Perry's voice leave your brain? Never! (Unless you will it. Make it so!)
    Permalink posted 05/05/2008
  11. Torch says What a great idea. I wish I had used it last year...
    Permalink posted 05/06/2008
  12. Mike the Knife says Torch: Belated congratulations! Hope all is still groovy...
    Permalink posted 05/08/2008
  13. Anna says I've never heard of this before either. It's very very interesting. And you know I'd love any couple that would include Arctic Monkeys in the mix..... :) I fear that if I ever do something like that {I'm referring to both the marriage and the mix}, I'll scare people away with the depressive songs I'd include :D
    Permalink posted 05/23/2008
  14. Mike the Knife says Anna: Just as long as you don't chase away the groom... ;-)
    Permalink posted 05/23/2008
  15. Anna says I'll give out the CD *after* he takes the oath of loving me in sickness ;)
    Permalink posted 05/23/2008
  16. Mike the Knife says I don't know, Anna. There's still that whole thing about "'til death do you part." You may have to watch your back...
    Permalink posted 05/24/2008
  17. extraordinarypoems says Hold the presses. The best wedding song ever, in my humble opinion --- and I do have the spiritual gift of humility :>) --- is Marc Cohn's "True Companion." Sadly, I can only find this cover video. Not an impressive video, but the guy does a lovely job with the tune itself.
    Permalink posted 05/28/2008
  18. extraordinarypoems says Wait --- again! Here's Marc Cohn himself, in voice if not in video.
    Permalink posted 05/28/2008
  19. extraordinarypoems says and one more (Marc Cohn again, but this time with a wedding video.)
    Permalink posted 05/28/2008
  20. Mike the Knife says Now, you've done it. I can't stop weeping. This is more heartrending than last night's preview screening of the "Sex & the City" movie. (sniff, sniff)
    Permalink posted 05/28/2008
  21. extraordinarypoems says I know. I break down every time I hear him sing "no act of God, girl, can keep you safe from me." And just the honest statement, "I'm asking you to be my true companion." And the violins. Oh, my goodness. The album that includes this song is one of the best I have ever heard; every song on it satisfies me deeply somewhere deep in the old soul. Glad you like it. Try this one: there is no video; just the song to listen to. I love it.
    Permalink posted 05/29/2008
  22. Mike the Knife says Jeez, e.p. Now, you've made me regret the sarcasm. In fact, Cohn's song is lovely. And the "Sex & the City" movie is certainly a treat for fans, although at 2 hours and 20 minutes, probably excruciating for others who would find the women's self-absorption and materialism off-putting.
    Permalink posted 05/29/2008
  23. extraordinarypoems says Oh, as opposed to men's self-absorption and materialism, which everybody must find refreshing? Ha ha. Anyway, I don't give a rip about Sex and the City. And I missed the sarcasm, actually. Call me silly --- I tend to take what people say at face value. I thought you were really moved by the music. Now I'm embarrassed. But it's good music, regardless.
    Permalink posted 05/30/2008
  24. Mike the Knife says Please. No embarrassment. I blame my innate snark. It is absolutely heartfelt, moving music. And I'm just as reluctant to sit through a movie about men's self-absorption and materialism as women's, unless we're talking Gordon Gekko - but, as a fan of the "Sex & the City" series (no lie), I had fun at the movie. A great movie? No. Enjoyable for the fans. Unquestionably.
    Permalink posted 05/30/2008

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