WHERE MUSIC LISTENS TO YOU

For those of us with other ears in our lives...

Posted over 3 years ago
So, I'm back from Mexico, and still on vacation from the restaurant. It's way great, since I get to spend time with my so fully dynamic and amazing wife without actually having to be in our usual roles of confrontation (restaurant people help me: front of house vs. back of house) oh, and just for the record: roles we did not originally sign on for. Well, if you know us, or have read my page (which has a full account of my acoustical adventures in Mexico for the last two weeks BTW) then you know that I am in charge of music. So now, the restaurant is closed. The Mrs. Beachy is cooking Thai..says, "put something on for me that's girly, Sheryl Crow or Shelby Lynne, before you go to the beach with the dogs." I want to play her my favorite of the year Neko Case, but the frickin computer's f*ed and the only place Neko lives (besides in my heart) is on my ipod, so I frantically seek my silver metal:Cat Power, but to no avail (ok- I'm a slob with my music if you must know) I land on Zero 7's soph disc and roll to the beach with the dogsSOOO: Come back and now its time for dinner, Thai, as I said, so I need to set up music, and fast, since I am late getting back b/c I ran into a freind and blew an extra ten minutes...I look for Ry Cooder's compendium of film music, but (see above- messy...) I can't find my Ry, so I grab Karsh Kale's Cd, one that up to tonight I have only listened to via headphones while messing with photoshop or something.WOW.Its so stunningly un-words-to-describe-it-ly- better through real speakers and in a real room.Now here's randomly, wine-twisted route round to the point of my topic and title:1. I gotta significant other who isn't all that into music, if its "weird" or "hard to listen to" it gets nixed. Anyone else in this situation?2.I often take my favs and play them at work, therefore eleminating them from "home" play. i.e. I get: " this is downstairs(work) music, it makes me stressed to think of work." So: In my shoes, Would you keep your favorites for home even if you knew you'd like (and knew you'd hear them more often) hearing them at work?I love to introduce new stuff to my guests, I encourage them to go to label sites, buy what they heard, trust the label to have more of what I have played, this is one of my favorite parts of my job. How can I begin to separate my music into "work" and "home"Am I just obsessing?

Comments (4)

  1. SWozniak says Re: your #1 - I used to be in that situation with my ex. She used to only listen to songs, and I'd want to listen to an album all the way through. So she'd be flipping and flipping, through top 40 crap, and I'd put on some album from an artist who'll never make it to radio, and she'd switch CDs on me. At first I thought it was just play, but then I learned that she was just being playful so she could hide her disgust. I feel ya. Make her a mix CD and break her taste in.
    Permalink posted 09/30/2006
  2. Beachy says Swozniak said: I feel ya. Make her a mix CD and break her taste in. Dude, I have. Believe me when I tell you, she just doesn't CARE all that much about music. We have been together for seven years and I love her, and she'll listen to what I play, yet still prefers the stuff she knows and can ?rely? on. You know those people who keep classic rock stations alive? I like me some Led as much as Jed, but I have heard some new tunes since '72... some folks just like what they were brought up on. And when they are otherwise fantastic (and HOT) people with minds and vocabulary and all their teeth and such, well...ya marry them.
    Permalink posted 09/30/2006
  3. lemontwist says Beachy, my boyfriend isn't a big music fan. His tastes mostly revolve around oldies and ska-punk, but there's fortunately a tiny bit of overlap in our tastes (we can agree on Toad The Wet Sprocket, Better Than Ezra and Guster). But fortunately he tolerates my massive consumption of music listening, and his non-obsession over music allows him to do this thing that I can never even conceive of: tuning it out. Which is okay by me, if it means I can keep blasing Queens Of The Stone Age. :)
    Permalink posted 10/01/2006
  4. chucky says My husband and I take turns when we have to listen to music together. As for the work thing - I'd say keep it at home. Use work for new stuff and as certain songs grow on you move them home. The ones that are good but not great, you can enjoy at work.
    Permalink posted 10/01/2006

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